How to Complete Your Profile on Online Dating Sites
You just signed up to one of the many online dating sites (hopefully one we recommended to you) and now there is the next big step, which could decide your success or failure: The completion of your profile.
The most important thing is: Be honest and be yourself. Nobody wants to talk to a fraud.
When describing yourself don't copy texts from somewhere else. Write them on your own. You might say now: "But I'm an awful writer, nobody is ever going to like my profile!". But there are other persons which either are very good writers and due to that don't really care if somebody else has the same ability or they are less talented in this area as well and are glad to find someone who has similar difficulties.
Don't pretend to be somebody you are not. Don't make up stories or write yourself into superman/woman. Otherwise you as well as your chat partners will be disappointed when an online acquaintanceship becomes one in the real world.
Only fill out the points of your profile you want to. Logically is it easier for others to get an impression about you when your profile is complete, but you don't have to give details about you and your life you don't want everybody to know. It can be quite likable if you write: "I don't think that this is something I want everybody to know." It shows that you have your limits and principles. For sure you should give online dating in general a second thought if you are not willing to give any personal information about you.
Highlight your strengths when you fill out your profile, but don't exaggerate. At the same time don't forget to mention your weaknesses. Nobody is perfect and that's ok. Things you may consider as a fault could be liked by others or accepted way more than you experienced it so far.
Like in so many things in life honesty is the key to success. Don't spoil possible future relationships by lying about yourself and trying to be someone else. You wouldn't feel comfortable either. Imagine how much more relaxed you could go to your first real date, if you know that everything you told your online chat partner about you is the truth. The only thing left to say is: Good luck!
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Jorge Ribeiro
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